The absence of Marriage

So I have recently discovered that I really don't have any desire to get married.

Here's why...

It will take far too much time. First you have to cultivate a friendship which in my mind takes at least 6 months to a year if not longer. Then you have to cultivate a relationship. Which again takes a long time. And Im more talking about the time that you put into the relationship e.g. the emotional time, physical time, and mental time.

Then you have to get engaged and plan the wedding, which takes more time.

Then you get married...and you have to put in all your time until your dead.

I have too many dreams and desires. I don't think I could fit marriage in.